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✨ HD playground day 16 - you are not here to prove anything (heart/ego centre)

understanding your relationship with your worth and willpower

Welcome to Day 16 of human design playground, a 30-day alignment experiment. Little things create big shifts. Remember, energy speaks louder than your words. Repeat after me: every little step I take daily brings me to alignment.

mini insight

The ego/heart centre governs:

  • willpower

  • self-worth

  • promises

But here’s the thing nobody tells you:

  • Only 30% of people have this centre defined.

  • The other 70% are not meant to rely on willpower.

yet ALL of us were raised in a world with these voices:

“try harder”

“push more”

“show that you deserve it”

“work until you earn the rest”

This centre shows where you’ve been proving yourself…
and where you get to stop.

If your ego/heart centre is defined (coloured):
you have consistent willpower — but it only works for things you truly want. You may notice:
 you can finish what you commit to
 a natural sense of self-esteem and self-worth
 you are powerful when your desire is genuine

If your ego/heart centre is undefined (white):
you absorb others’ willpower and pressure to prove yourself. This creates
 low feeling of self-esteem/worth
over-delivering/overcompensating
 tying your worth to achievements

today’s micro-action

Today, notice one moment from today:

  • ego/heart defined: only commit to ONE thing today that you genuinely want, not what you “should” do.

  • ego/heart undefined: “does this yes come from desire… or from wanting to be liked/needed?”

reflect with me

💌 Reply or share in Telegram group to earn another 🌟 alignment star:

where did you try to prove yourself today?

You are worthy because you exist.

Celebrating you,

your human design cheerleader

P.S. sign up links for our upcoming in-person event on 30 Nov is available in our telegram group ✨ 

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